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Old 01-05-2020, 08:51 AM
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Originally Posted by HardLessons View Post
Time will tell but its hard for me to imagine she's done chasing her life of addiction.
I can't imagine she is either and I don't say that in a judgmental way and I'm sure you don't either. It just is what she knows.

Now people DO turn their lives around, nothing I have read about her leads me to believe for one minute that is where she is at.

In fact her contacting you and spilling all of the beans flies in the face of that.

If she had contacted you and said - this all went on - but I have been in contact with the salvation army and I have a spot at sober living and etc etc. Or anything! But of course that didn't happen. Is there even one thing she mentioned where she is trying to help herself. She's not stupid, she knows what's available.

Instead she probably pondered how great it was when you were there to prop her up, somewhere to live, food etc etc (all the while still using!).

It is sad, it's a tragedy. This lifestyle she leads has a terrible hold on her.
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