Originally Posted by
Soberwolf 
Your daughter is 23 ? I'm 37 I thought you were my age silentrun it's so good to see you
I kinda went through this with my 24yo niece
I was one of those "wine moms" only I was a whiskey mom. I didn't start abusing alcohol until my 30s. It took 10 years between 1st blackout (when I realized something had changed) at 34 until 44 when I was about to pass into end-stage alcoholism. She was 6 when this all started. I turned her mother into a clinically depressed mess. The last 2 years were sheer hell for me and I'm sure for her too.