so i want to say this gently, but will likely fail.
what is the attraction you have to him that every time he gets out of jail or prison you are right back in it again?
2015: When we met- he was 19 and living a fast life on the streets dealing drugs and partying. He then got arrested and went to
prison for a couple years and when he came home we reconnected.
8/2018: He called me from outside jail yesterday
9/2018: Well...he is back in jail.
2019: but a few months back he reached out and had come out of jail,
I went through his phone and found out he relapsed and also has been selling drugs. It's been 4 months of active recovery minus his relapse a week ago, but before this he was in jail.
there is a saying - water seeks it's own level. when he is not out on the streets, ripping and running, he's back in jail OR prison. as it is he's back to using AND selling drugs. these are his ACTIONS.
so i ask you....what IS the attraction here?