I have been thinking about these questions as you asked, could people generally answer in the affirmative? These would have been my two answers, generally, during both marriages.
“Ask yourself these questions.
What do you love about your husband as he is NOW?
I could have listed a lot for both.
Are you happy? I don't mean walking around every day with a big smile on your face...because that hardly ever happens...but just in general, in the pit of your stomach, are you happy and content?
Yes and no.
Do you think he will change?
Never. I don't expect people to change.
Are you in love with what he could be or what he once was?
No, never.
What makes you feel as though this is all your worth? Why do you accept his behaviour?
This doesn't really apply except to my first marriage. Apparently I didn't accept it since I divorced him.