FWN...….those words that he spoke to you screams----No respect, for you; no caring for your needs; not hearing you---all indicating that you do not matter, to him.
Love is not supposed to degrade you...love is not supposed to DELIBERATELY hurt you.....
The next time he says "I love you"....you have absolutely no evidence of that---because his actions speak to the contrary.....so loudly to the contrary.....