I definitely need to establish better self-care and boundaries. I have read Codependent No More and went to a couple of meetings. I was so unmotivated about everything and stopped going. That was months ago so I know I need to give it another try.
He is dragging the move out so I’m setting aside some of his stuff on the side so that he won’t really have a reason to come back here after he gets done.
I do believe that I’ll feel better and have a more positive
update to share in a few months.