The bottom line is life is too damn short!!! If you have a chance to be happy embrace it. Talk on the phone, flirt, act silly,feel young again. If it feels right follow your instincts. Your kids will thrive if the see how happy you are. Blush and enjoy every minute of it. A wise woman said that she ate her dessert first because you never know if you will make it through dinner. Enjoy and eat dessert!!!