Oh Go for it! Especially since you don't intend to' cross the line' unless you are divorced. If you date a man willing to go by your rules, he is probably a a good guy. You have been loyal to this man long enough. The older you get , the fewer available men that might make the list- lord knows there are really really just a few good men. Although I really can't see why you can't let him completely go. I bet he has not been loyal to you in the last 4 years. dax