Originally Posted by MagnumCat

I just finished my third week of my IOP. Nine more to go. I'm still enjoying it and getting a lot out of it.

Was a little ticked at my husband yesterday. I went to get groceries and my husband sent me a text asking me to pick something up for him. I didn't hear my phone, but I always check for texts before I hit the cash register. I texted back then and finished my shopping. When I got home he was in a frenzy, asking me where the heck I've been. I'm standing there with grocery bags and I was only gone just over an hour. Apparently, I didn't answer his text fast enough, so he phoned. Seven times!!! I never hear my phone in the store. So therefore, he immediately thinks that I'm sitting the parking lot drinking.

Obviously he still doesn't trust me! I get that it will take time, but I'm in my program and they test us every week so he should know that I'm not drinking. I had my meeting an hour after that and we were tested again and I passed. I told him and expected an apology, but I didn't get one until today and I had to basically ask for it.

Did I have a right to feel hurt about this? Probably not, but I did.