Good for you for realizing this relationship is no good and putting his stuff out on the porch. I only hope he doesn’t decide that he’s not going to give you your stuff back to be spiteful or do some other crazy alcoholic behavior.

Glad you found us and decided to share with us. You could always report your car stolen? He did take it a long time ago and he has your phone and purse. Not sure if that’s a good idea but just a thought if he doesn’t show.

Im sure some other folks will come along with much better and wiser advice.