I'm not sure how old you are but I am only 34
Bless!! I'm only 32!!
Hon, I would never, ever criticise you (or anyone else) for moving on, nor was I thinking you were going to get it on with this guy asap. I just wondered how pursuing a possible relationship prior to getting divorced fitted in with your strongly held beliefs. Curious, not critical. Sorry if my question came across that way.
So, the good old "what ifs?" are making an appearance. I know those very well. I made the decision that "What now?" was a more manageable question.