Minnie, Your thoughts are your thoughts and I'm sure you and I would do things differently. I'm not sure how old you are but I am only 34 and still have alot of my life left. I have "waited" four years. I have been together with my ah for seven years. I also didn't say I was going to jump in the sack with the man I was saying I was wondering if I should pursue a possible relationship. I'm not crushed or hurt or abused. I am very stable. I just have a hard time letting go. Maybe a control thing. lol I hate admitting that the marriage didn't work.
I know I could love another person, I know I would not carrying pain with me, I know I have alot to offer. I am kinda ready to move on. It's the "what if's" that are holding me back.
My son pee's sitting down but somehow manages peeing through the crack of the seat and the bowl. UGH.