Thanks Dee.
This is helpful.
I will work on this in the airport and on the plane to keep me focused and prepared for this weekend and then revisit next weekend.

as the college football game weekends come and go, holidays are approaching, big milestones for my kids and such, I will use the plan and tweak it until all the right gears are in place to keep the machine running on ANYTHING but alcohol.

it helps knowing that from my experience people don’t really care if I’m drinking or not. And once in a while they might ask or push the drinks. I’ve learned “no thanks” said over and over amazingly works!! Lol.

The AV on the other hand, doesn’t take “no” for an answer so easily.

thanks for the plan link.