Im ok around it. Yes, the 'mommy needs wine' posts are tedious and not at all funny to me, so i scroll past.
I can no longer stand being around intoxicated people. I just cannot watch their self-destruction. What they choose for their bodies is their business, and I'm not hanging around to watch
Perhaps a few pre-prepared lines could help..." im driving and a bit tired, so I'm going to be on the safe side...but thanks for offering".