My daughter's counselor encouraged me to just talk to them - in part so it's on the record that I have attempted to initiate visits because of how our custody agreement is written - and so I reached out. I am also curious, and because of the sudden silence my anxiety is out of control. That's on me and I need to get on top of it. But as far as my counselor was concerned I did my part and it was just as chaotic and stupid as it ever was, so I'm done with that going forward.
How did you introduce Soberlink to the courts/your case? We don't currently use Soberlink in my area and so my attempts to get it folded in to my case have been unsuccessful. Was it something you and your ex agreed on, or is it something your family courts already do? Who pays for it?