@abgator thanks for sharing! It is sad to hear how anyone would not wish to save the marriage, especially if you were ready to give up drinking and work on your relationship!?

It was the opposite in my case- I was so eager to be there for him as a support, but he didnt ever wish to get help (he still thinks he doesnt need it), so instead, he got rid of me!? And I stood by him when literally no one else did!

Sad story