I got divorced after quite a few years of marriage after I got sober.
My ex-wife was also an alcoholic.
I don't talk about the particulars of my former marriage and divorce because I hope that she is also clean and sober and on this forum.
We got divorced in 1 day, quite friendly and with no recriminations.
I hope that she is sober now.
Notwithstanding the lack of antipathy between us, I badly needed and divorce and she did, too.
I have joked that divorce should be made into a sacrament.
Keep us posted with your situation.