I think an important factor... you’re ALREADY having concerns & issues living separately/long distance. Try LIVING directly in that chaos!

Am I correct with this? That you both don’t or haven’t lived together?

So honestly that’s all you have to ask yourself... do you want that rollercoaster in your life 24/7? Not saying, she doesn’t have redeeming qualities or ambitions... it’s just the truth to say that her addiction will override 100% of anything good... and I’m talking about the good in YOU.

I wish I had truly understood alcoholism 6 years ago. Thankfully I walked away but still paying the price.