Originally Posted by
javier 
Question is, How do you decide to stay and watch the lies and relapses or decide to go?
I think you have kind of answered your own question?
You can stay if you like. So she lies too? Do you want to be in a relationship with an addict that lies?
Or do you cut ties and move on to other things in your life.
That's entirely your call.
Now breaking up with someone is hurtful. Do you stay and be hurt or break up and be REALLY hurt? It's not a great choice! The difference is if you choose the first option then the pain is just ongoing. If you choose the second one you free yourself to move along to something else, something happier after you recover from the pain (or short term pain for long term gain as another member here says).
You didn't Cause it, can't Control it and can't Cure it.
What are you inclined to do at this point?