Been dating someone for the past three years very long distance. Recently discovered her problem with alcohol. She done very well at hiding it. Health finally took a turn and couldn't hid it any more. She made it a month before she drank again. Of coarse I got the I don't want to be like this speech and the guilt trip for being upset with her. Gave her another chance and that lasted all of 3 weeks.

Question is, How do you decide to stay and watch the lies and relapses or decide to go?