People are afraid of change, even if it is not them changing, the change around them scares them.
That is on them. Nothing we can do.
Every time I tried to get sober (i didnt try very hard) I would have "friends" ask me when I was going to drink again, they missed the fun me... Well, all those relationships are now gone. No loss here.
My partner at the time missed his drinking buddy, just not the wasted me.
My mom didn't like how I put up boundaries with her, she blamed me for holding my son from her when it was her addiction holding her back.
My son had no idea what was going on as he was too young.
My true friends and family have shown nothing but support and are proud of me. They all say that I am the strongest person they know.