Originally Posted by
Florence 
XAH is *supposedly* going to rehab this week, and then to a long-term residential step-down place after.
I know this is exhausting for you, hang in there.
I hope he does go to rehab, recovery or not, it takes him out of this picture for a little while and especially to a long-term residence. This might just solve your problem. Can't really have her doing overnight visitation at a recovery facility?
Short of him actually being full on drunk every day stumbling around during visitation, the story couldn't be much worse.
This family of his is truly a mess (you already know this). The fact that to them you are the villain and they hate you is actually a compliment. If they liked you and the way you operate (as they are now), that would indicate a problem!
Ideally of course they would be doing what's best for your Daughter, but that's not the case.
I wish you well, I think you are entirely on the right track here.