Dazed.....yes, I agree--difficult to be around, consistently. This feature of my sisters' personalities has become more apparent, as they grew into adulthood...and older.
As adults (not in childhood)...they have tried to give me a hard time...sometimes, demanding or controlling ...or, trying to "scapegoat" me....
At first, I reacted and it hurt my feelings...But, as my Tail Feathers came in....and I toughened up my own boundaries...I have learned to keep those boundaries and let their attitudes roll off my back. I have learned how much "distance" is safe for me.
thankfully, my sweet husband was a good reality check, for me....He would say---"Dandylion, remember that the "Simpson Sisters are "Krazy".
He was referring to the two sisters, in the cartoon series "The Simpsons"....(who had blue hair, and were actually Marge's sisters---who put Homer down all of the time. LOL...LOL...