Same Hawkeye. The "ive been trying to demonstrate to you" line was a huge red flag to me this morning. That is why I simply said I understand and left the room. Him moving 1200 miles away, might be true, his FOO would be the ones he would be going to, although hes not real keen on that as he says " Ill have to return with my tail between my legs...". And again, after responding to his question and comment about not wanting to say his commitment to our marriage is something he wont give up on....it once again proves to me that only his needs, his concerns, and his "vows" matter when he is comfortable. Pressure from me now to get MY needs addressed is causing a temper tantrum. So im in my art room, reading SR, writing, and browsing codependent recovery links on pinterest. So glad you showed up. Hope your well and happy.
