So i have learned more about alcoholism than i ever expected. Been going to alanon for almost a year. And we also went to a couples in recovery group for a while which didn’t work well since he was still actively drinking.

Re my plan? I am very financially stable. I just need to find a new place and move. The big thing is that i need to get him to sign an agreement to each keep what we have. We have no joint property and no children together (he has 3). Just feeling really angry and having given him so much already praying he does not try to take more. And in spite of everything still heartbroken that it is like this - i loved him and he loved and still loves the bottle.