Boy howdy do I recognize the guilt trip. What kind of person AM I? How can I do this and make him feel so depressed? I loved this person! I must be a monster! First, you did NOT make him feel anyway. He is in charge of his own self. Hasn’t his behavior shown you that his attitude is “you’re not the boss of me”. Secondly, you are a good person, you gave and gave. He took and took, why would that dynamic in your relationship change during a breakup? He is still taking by acting like a baby, and your still giving out kindness by feeling guilty. You do not deserve to feel guilt. You showed him what life could be, he chooses to live in its underbelly. As the saying goes: you can lead a horse to water. It will be exciting to see the glory of your rewards that you will reap from all the love and giving that you sowed. ❤️