Originally Posted by
Beachn 
[left]People keep telling me it’s the addiction, but how can anyone tell the difference between alcoholism and antisocial personality disorder or narcissistic personality disorder? Is there a difference?
Maybe there is a difference and maybe there is not. Does it matter?
Originally Posted by
Beachn Why are they so egotistical, self centered, lying, conniving, backstabbing assholes even when not drinking. What the hell is it?
Who knows? Does it matter?
Can you continue to live like this? Even if she does start recovery, it's going to be a very, very long road until you reach your new "normal".
Personally, I bailed. XAH is still drinking himself to death but now he gets to do it in peace and I don't have to deal with him or his consequences. It's almost a win win situation!
Except for the fact that he still blames me for making him drink