when my AH came back from treatment today, he told me they asked him his goals. He said he wanted to work on coping skills and building his self esteem. I said nothing, even tho he asked my opinion. But what I think he should be working in is humility ....he is an arrogant you know what. More self esteem and he will go from monster to more monster. He just wants some of this guilt and shame to leave him...I think it’s thru humility he thinks it’s thru self esteem. Self esteem for what? For being a liar? For being a heartbreak? I’m staying out of it and working my own step, I’m powerless over people places and things...