Originally Posted by
Dazedandconfus 
I’m so fracking angry!!!! He seems all together! His promises and apologies just **** me off more. I miss me. I was fun, gregarious, and productive. This is bs.
Maybe he "seems" all together but from out here (not in crazy pants world) this is far far far away from all together.
His moods and promises or lack of promises flit around from one hour to the next. One minute he begs to stay, the next he is doing the oh so long "packing", one minute he will drink as he pleases! the next he is at an AA meeting.
There is nothing all together about this at all, not one bit.
I think you have been living in this dysfunction for so long that this seems kind of normal? I totally get that, we can all become accustomed to situations that are not ideal. Doesn't mean we like it, doesn't mean we are comfortable with it.