Originally Posted by
trailmix 
So glad to hear you have exited the road show for now.
For the love of all things holy, how long does it take him to pack. When is he leaving, beginning of August? Any way to move that up? You can't put up with this for another week and a half.
Do you have anywhere you can go until then? Perhaps an Air BnB for a week at least. I know the costs of escaping are piling up and that may not be doable. How about a women's shelter? Might be an idea to give them a call?
You are doing really well by the way, hang in there.
thank you trail mix! The default divorce will be heard around the 7th? I think. The house is mine so he is under tenant laws, that would give him 45 days from then legally. He wants 90 dats. I’m leaving it at 45. He is waiting to see what his work does. If they offer him a job in another state, he will go there. If he can keep his job here, he will stay here, but not with me. He’s pleading for some hope...if I show improvement can I stay? Some hope please? It’s pathetic. Divorce moving forward and a 45 day window to leave. That gives me full legal protection and rights. I wish him the very best, I really do, but I wish myself the very best too. 😀