Originally Posted by
Hawkeye13 
Quit engaging him. He will say anything to get status quo back.
Tell him to contact you after a full year of recovery and you will consider it then, but that meanwhile divorce goes forward. He will show true colors. Drunks don't like the effort starting over takes. Easier to keep you enabling.
I have told him divorce moving forward. He says ok he will still do whatever it takes. Now a few hours later he’s back to on his way out. Good god.