Originally Posted by
Milano58 
Sorry to hear you're going through this. I started seeing this a couple years ago when we travelled overseas. He would just vanish off on his own he was still keeping his drinking secret back then. I definitely felt that priority switch even back then.
You absolutely deserve better.. This is not a relationship of any sort. What do the kids think of all of this?
They think it's ridiculous. Older one talks to me about it. Younger one asks where Dad is staying and i say i dont know, which is often true. AH seems to still want to be around us, but just on his terms, in a way that suits him and without having to take too much responsibility for the kids. Not good enough.
One day he wanted to sit on his own on a bus. 14yo noticed i had to sit alone, so came to sit with me. He shouldn't have to go through that.