Originally Posted by
Eddiebuckle There are no hard and fast rules, but that sure sounds like an alcoholic to me.
I assume that this is someone that you are romantically involved with. The real question is: given all the evidence that he is an alcoholic who appears to have no desire to quit drinking, do you really want to invite the consequences of his choices into your life?
I believe op is divorced but has to share custody/visitation with the alcoholic.