Personally, tracking someone is just as obsessive as counting booze bottles. Both are extremely unhealthy, in my opinion. And what good will it do? But drive you insane... and for what? Ok so he/she lied. That’s what alcoholics do!!! And it only gets worse.
I’d seriously be in a mental institution if I started doing that... I was already obsessed enough over my ex.
There’s a bigger picture here... regardless of when and where his lies started or are now. Netherlands or a bar downtown. It doesn’t matter. He lied, he’s gonna do it again & again... drink more, etc.
Let’s take the focus completely off him.