Originally Posted by
endofmyrope65 
Here's the big question that may be lurking in the back of your mind...
Besides the drinking problem... is he "alone"?
Perhaps you can express to him your unease, and to put your mind at rest have him enable the gps tracking on his phone so you can verify he is where he says he is?
I was going to recommend the GPS tracking. After my AH's emotional affair last year, it was part of the deal in regaining trust. We use an app called Life 360. It's free and remarkably accurate.
Also, things might be different in your country, but I can log onto my husband's cell phone account and see his text messages. Even if he deletes it off his phone, it will be on the phone provider's log. (We use Verizon) He knows I can do this; again....part of the regaining trust agreement.
Dr. Phil has a great quote that I live by: "Those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing."