Originally Posted by
dandylion 
fwn…..I wonder if the bigger problem that you are struggling with is your own personal feeling of guilt, shame, or failure...…? Lots of people in your situation do express these feelings......
Probably all of the above, although I haven't given it much thought. Way back when I did think we'd make it for the long haul, we agree on so much when it comes to parenting and life style choices, other than of course this huge problem of his drinking...................
And I do not enjoy the thought of being a divorced mother of 3, but then again who does. Better than being a miserable married mother of 3.