Originally Posted by
LifeChangeNYC 
“Seeing the good” in her is honestly what got me stuck in the first place... and then, what justified me returning all those times... Addiction destroys anything good in someone, in my opinion
For me, I'd change it to: Seeing the "good” in her is honestly what got me stuck in the first place, and what I used to justify me returning all those times... Addiction neutralizes or destroys anything good in someone if and until they find long-term sobriety in my opinion. Only then will we know if any of the good survives.