I think seeing the good is what has kept me in this marriage longer than I should. At some point, you become used to something that has become a new normal. Yet, it's not normal.
I am forever trying to weigh the good vs the bad. At what point, does the bad overcome the good? That's the point where you get out. That point has continuously shifted because I keep finding the good. I keep finding that justification. It's messed up.