I think this is true as long as that is not all we ever see. I am a person who has a cup that is half full, not half empty, and I don't want that to change. I do think we all have gut instinct that we need to listen to!
Originally Posted by
SmallButMighty 
Maybe we ARE "hard wired to find the faults in people" but is that a bad thing? Maybe that's on purpose.
If I had paid attention to my first instincts and acted appropriately, my life would never have gone as sideways as it did.