Heather, I have a rather difficult family as well, so I think I understand the emotional issues with family members. The serenity and Sick man prayers help a lot.
Have a wonderful, sober day.
I've read some of Bradshaw, but it has been a while. I'll have to look him up again. M. Scott Peck writes some very good stuff too. I really like his "People of the Lie'". Very interesting point of view.
All my love to you! ♥♥♥