I presume grandparents should have known better. No one should loan him money at any point. I would not even discuss it.
He has not asked how they are because he used them for their money. That is the mindset he is in. I am not trying to be harsh, but it sounds like that is just what happened.
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hummingbird358 
So even though he never asks how his grandparents are doing, I should just let him know about the mild heart attack, etc.?
My grandparents loaned him money a few months ago interest free and he made the comment last week via text that he is not in a good financial spot to start repaying it... right before that was when he text asking if anyone would help him out with travel costs - which I ignored.
He has called them one time since the loan occurred. One time and has never asked how they were doing.