My exah moved on 3 months after I left our home. He started dating his secretary and proudly admitted it during our divorce trial. If they had such insight into consequences , empathy or respect for relationships , they would not be drunk heads. I was shattered. I still remember the days of screaming into my pillow and the pain was the same or more than the pain I felt the day I left the house. Healing takes time and active work. 2 years on and I am still healing . My own rose colored glasses took time to come off. My own dopamine took time to fade off . I for the first time in my life had put myself first. I for the first time was standing up for myself . That change was painful .