Originally Posted by
Donisi44 
[left]. He has told me so many times over the years I am his comfort and will always value me in that respect.
is it ok to value and respect certain parts and not others?
blowin his money on drugs then call you for....ehem...food money- is that respectful?
you are his comfort- is that because you rationalize the addiction? dont set boundaries and let him use you? what would happen if you set boundaries and didnt give him money for food? what if you bought the food or didnt even do that and allowed him to find his own food?