Sounds like maybe they’re all huge extroverts and you’re an introvert? And it sounds like you’re an HSP (highly sensitive person) as well. I’m both plus I’m an empath and it’s a real challenge sometimes... I sympathize.
If you do some research on those traits it might really help you understand why you react to them this way (and vice versa). More importantly, it may help you find ways to protect and value who you are.
It may not be personal...it may just be that they are different and don’t understand how much.