Good job on pouring the bottle out. That takes A LOT! I'm so sorry for what you and your partner are going through. Does your partner know you are in recovery? I know she wasn't meaning to upset you and probably needed to vent to you, but maybe talk with her that you do not want to hear anything else her mother has to say about you unless it's positive. You know you are a good person and you and your partner love and care about each other, no one else's opinion matters.