Originally Posted by
jjwinters 
Needabreak - I am very aware that I'm equally responsible for letting this relationship get to this place.
No, I didn't write nor did I imply that you are equally responsible for letting this relationship get to this place. The gist of my post was that you are subordinating your needs and goals in a dysfunctional relationship to make your girlfriend happy, and she honestly doesn't give a fig about your needs or your happiness.