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fini if or when i dislike someone, i don’t spend mental energy on it. i don’t think about them when i’m not around them.
if or when i resent someone, it relates to their behaviour, real or perceived. or their way of being, and it affects me. the behaviour and how i feel about it. though, sometines, i am not even affected by their behaviour itself but just somehow feel affected and pissed off.
resentment has me stewing. regurgitating. re-feeling. feeding it. writing the story in stone.
https://mrsponsorpants.typepad.com/m...ng-about-.html That is by far the best explanation of resentment I've ever heard. Thanks for spelling it out so clearly, fini.