Iris...contact cece…..she is a moderater for this forum....she can help you to be able to do PMs.....private messages.....
Just click on her name and you should be able to send her a message....
I know that, sometimes, this technical stuff can be confusing (it is for me!!)...but, it ususally has a very simple "answer"....keep trying...lol...
You can find cece's name in bold letters at the bottom of the page...on the right hand side....