Troubledone…..she seems to have developed quite a sense of entitlement.
that, would, likely go on forever, unless she learns different....through life learning experiences....(like this one)….
I know that you feel so responsible for her....and care about her success navigating life....so I really do know how this feels....
Just tell yourself over and over...and, over....that you are doing what is the BEST thing for her development...…
Resist allowing yourself to feeling guilt....because, in this case, it is "false guilt"....