Thanks Dee again!
Had to come on and post something kind of funny kind of sad. Sunflower especially I think you will appreciate this. Tonight my husband announces he’s giving up sweets for Lent. He turns to me and says “so I’m gonna need you to not buy sweets for that time. Or hide them.” OMG! I went through two pregnancies, several failed attempts at sobriety and now have gone over a year watching him drink everything under the sun and I’m not supposed to buy sweets for Lent to spare him the discomfort??! Wha? I was proud that I didn’t get mad (we had a friend of my daughter’s over; that probably helped). I just said yeah, I’m not gonna do that. Not to be tit for tat about it but I guess I do kind of want him to know how it feels to not have someone you love support you in doing something that is tough. Or maybe I will try to support him but be really honest about how it seems unfair but I do still want him to succeed. Idk. Crazy!!